inspiring substack essays

Your phone is why you don’t feel sexy

“Low maintenance” friendships are just women who don’t want to show up

I Wish Someone was Afraid to Lose Me

a thought: you do owe people something

The epidemic of constant communication

You don’t need an “aesthetic,” you need a value system

you never really know anyone

why time felt slower when we were kids (and how to get it back)

you’re not for everyone, and that’s okay

How to become an academic weapon

the slow burn of becoming yourself

Confessions of a Former Slut

Because i wanted you to know

let’s stop treating women’s friendships like status updates

how to find meaning in ordinary days

do you know what’s really sexy?

your depth is the reason you’re single

Social Media Ruined Romance

Questions to ask your friends

the need to be yearned for

what women don’t understand about men

films that have healed me

to be loved is to be seen

lazy ambitious. the worst kind of stuck.

‘I’m not really into politics’

i don’t know how to be loved without earning it

You can miss someone and still not want them back in your life

To the Girls Who Overanalyze Everything:

can intellectual intimacy replace physical desire?

sometimes i wish i didn’t care, but then i wouldn’t be me

“Casual” isn’t real

womanhood is the process of understanding your mother

No One Wants to Think Anymore

things that are none of your business

i just wish i had someone to tell

adult hobbies worth trying

the intimacy of “how did you know that”

the hunger to be everything.