
Notes
When you are black or poor, esp black and poor you cannot afford to be carefree as a child, lazy and reckless because for you, the consequences are deadly. For the white child, eso rich one, they make a mistake and daddy pays for it. They have the freedom to explore, make mistakes, chnage theur minds and be selfish. The poor/black child cannot do that. Especially the black child cause they are also "representing their whole race" much like queer kids are but not the point. Black and poor children don't have a childhood, and it's deeply unfortunate that most parents dont have the power or dont feel that they have the power to change the world but change tehur kid to prepare them for rhe world instead.